An Enigma Wrapped in a Riddle

"It is a riddle, wrapped in a mystery, inside an enigma; but perhaps there is a key." - Winston Churchill

We always say "if it's not one thing, it's another." Miss Sadie continues to be a mystery. The seizures are relatively low (well, for Sadie's standards), but she has not been herself lately. She is restless, irritable, not eating and sleeping well. She is also not as interactive as she once was. It's been about 2 weeks since we've seen a smile (very un-Sadie-like). This lack of recognition and interactivity just tugs at the heartstrings, especially because this was once one of her strengths. We're trying to figure it all out, but it's as if we have 12 puzzle pieces from 12 different puzzles.

We thought we solved one piece of the puzzle when the docs found another UTI last week. Yes, her fourth UTI...which we think is happening because she tends to hold her urine for hours on end, then bacteria builds up and before you know it, another infection.

However, we are now on day 4 of antibiotics and Sadie has not gone back to her happy-go-lucky self. My current theories are a Dilantin level that is way too high (when in doubt, blame the Dilantin) or a side effect of weaning the vigabatrin (maybe it was doing more than we thought).

Sadie's oxygen requirements have also been up and down. She'll do great for a few days off oxygen, then for some unknown reason, she'll need it again. We had a great appointment last week with Mary Massery, a PT who specializes in kiddos with respiratory issues. Since Sadie has developed her propensity for oxygen, Mary's name has been brought up by numerous people. She is in such high demand, that it took 6 months to even get in to see her! She was able to provide some great recommendations for Sadie. Maybe we can get her off this oxygen once and for all!

The biggest news of the past few weeks is that we've heard back from the doctors at Cleveland Clinic regarding a second opinion on Sadie's treatment and possible surgery. We will be traveling there in early October for some testing and a surgical evaluation. While she is there, Sadie will meet with Dr. Elaine Wyllie and will undergo a PET Scan and an ICTAL SPECT . The ICTAL SPECT is a test where dye is injected during the onset of a seizure, the dye pinpoints the location of the seizure activity in the brain. It can be very helpful for doctors in surgical planning.

Sadie will be hooked up to a Video EEG in the Epilepsy Monitoring Unit during her entire stay at Cleveland Clinic. This will enable the docs to capture as much brain activity as possible.

We hope and pray that this team of doctors can help us determine the right path for Sadie's treatment. Perhaps they can find the key to unwrap this mystery.

A Dose of Honesty

Recently, I received a Facebook message from a family who was considering adopting a newborn baby with Aicardi Syndrome. I don't know why the biological parents were giving up their daughter. Perhaps it was a decision they made before they realized this baby would have medical complications. Hopefully, it was not a decision made after the fact.

It struck me as amazing that there are people out there who would actually VOLUNTEER for this life. I came to the conclusion that this family must be truly special to accept a child with such severe special needs. As hard as it is to admit, if given the choice, I honestly can't say I would do the same.

It doesn't mean I don't love my precious Sadie for the special little baby she is. However, as she gets older and her disabilities are more visible, I struggle with how to respond to questions about her. After seeing Sadie in her baby wheelchair with an oxygen tank and pulse oximeter underneath, a man in the store asked "What's wrong with her?" I was taken aback. He likely was not aware of the insensitivity of his question. I stopped in mid-aisle and stood there for a few seconds, unsure of what to say. I finally uttered quietly, "Oh, she just needs a little oxygen," and scurried away before he could ask anything else. After thinking it through, a simple explanation "She has a rare neurological condition called Aicardi Syndrome," would have sufficed.

We did not ask for this life. Sometimes I feel like the deer-in-the-headlights cartoon character who is the only one in line who didn't take a step back. When people say "I don't know how you do it." I simply respond, "She is my daughter. You would do the same."

For the past few days, Sadie has been off the oxygen. She needed it, again, for a few weeks post-hospital. We have also seen some improvement with her seizure activity after a recent Dilantin increase. However, she is restless, not sleeping, and not eating very well. (Which means Mommy and Daddy are averaging about 4 hours of sleep a night.) If it's not one thing, it's another.

As for this special family and their unselfish desire to adopt this precious baby, the biological parents ultimately chose another adoptee family for the baby. I can only hope this special child went to a family who will cherish her for the beautiful angel she is.

In The Weeds

As a former waitress, when things were starting to spiral out of control, you'd say that you were "in the weeds." If you were lucky, coworkers would help out until you were in a more comfortable place.

We're on week three of Sadie's ACTH treatment. While the steroid seems to have gotten Sadie out of her every-five-minute-seizure-pattern, she is still "in the weeds." We've gone from seizures every five minutes to seizures every fifteen minutes - still not a great place to be. You know things are bad when medical professionals (epileptologists, even) look at you in amazement when you tell them the number and duration of seizures she has, as well as the numerous medicines and treatments she is on.

We've started making some slow changes with her medicines. We're finally starting to wean her off of Vigabatrin - a medicine she's been on now for a year. The jury has always been out on Vigabatrin. We initially thought it was making things worse, then after a few weeks, she got better...but she had also started the ketogenic diet around the same time. Of the four seizure medicines she is currently on, Vigabatrin has the most severe side effect - potential vision loss - and with Sadie's existing vision impairment in her right eye, it's the logical choice to start weaning first.

On a parallel track, we've also started testing to determine whether Sadie is a candidate for brain surgery. After talking with few other parents of children who have undergone hemispherectomies, we've started an initial conversation with Cleveland Clinic, who has a great epilepsy center and neurosurgeon who specializes in the surgical procedure.

In Sadie's situation, we have epileptologists, pediatricians, dietitians - all helping to get Sadie out of "the weeds." But no matter how hard we tug, we just can't seem to get her to where she needs to be. We'll simply keep trying.

Desperate Measures

Since my last blog post, Sadie's seizures have gotten significantly worse - the twitching episodes are now happening every 2-5 minutes. After giving Diastat 3 times in 48 hours, we felt uncomfortable managing the seizures at home, and decided that she needed to be in the hospital. Upon our arrival to the ER, Sadie was given a dose of phenobarbitol to calm her brain activity. The medicine completely knocked her out. We were hopeful that it would give her some much-needed rest and seizure relief while allowing for the prednisolone to take effect.

Let me backtrack...after 10 days of crazy seizure activity (every 5 minutes,) we decided to start a steroid treatment, prednisolone. We had previously rejected the steroid route due to their intense side effects - suppressed immune system, irritability, increased blood pressure, weight gain, etc. Also, steroids are typically a short term treatment and sometimes the seizures come right back once treatment ends. Well, after dealing with seizures all day long, we were desperate for anything that might help.

So...back at the hospital...once the phenobarb wore off, Sadie's seizures returned. It seemed that the more mild steroid treatment (prednisolone) was not working. Time to call in the big guns. Desperate times call for desperate measures. Sadie starts her ACTH treatment tomorrow. ACTH is another steroid treatment that we had previously dismissed due to all the scary side effects listed above as well as a high mortality rate due to illnesses contracted because of a suppressed imune system. It was a difficult decision, but we feel like we need to give this a try for Sadie's sake. Our list of options narrow and the choices after ACTH are pretty shitty (excuse my french)...and would include possible hemispherectomy (removing part of Sadie's brain.)

I hope the day is close in the future when I will be able to share some positive news. Thanks to everyone for your contiued support.

P.S. The photo above is my view from my hospital chair...where I get very little sleep.

Cause and Effect

Why do certain things happen? Growing up, I would always ask my parents, "Why?" Their canned response, "Because I said so."

Why was Sadie given these challenges in life? As a parent, it's hard not to blame yourself. Maybe it is god's way of punishing me for being mean to that girl in high school? Maybe it was that one night before I knew I was pregnant where I had too many martinis? Maybe it's because I didn't spend enough time volunteering, going to church, caring for those less fortunate...you see how it can drive you crazy??

For two analytical individuals like Adin and me, these mysteries that happen with Sadie are even more frustrating. After a few relatively calm weeks (only 3-5 seizures a day), the random twitches have again returned. Our initial guess (unsteady Dilantin levels) has proved to be untrue, so we're now exploring a secondary hypothesis - that her new medicine (Ospolot) is the culprit, as the twitches have seemed to occur a few days following an Ospolot increase. So...we're now taking her off the Ospolot and trying what will now be our eighth seizure medicine, Keppra.

Keppra has been used successfully on many girls with Aicardi Syndrome. Many docs like the drug due to it's limited side effects. When the twitching was occurring every 5 minutes this weekend, we ended up in the ER where Sadie received a loading dose of Keppra. Loading doses of meds are often given in a hospital setting to immediately reach a therapeutic level. While we thought we saw some initial improvement in the ER, the next morning the twitching was back...again every five minutes. It's just maddening to have her on five seizure medicines and the ketogenic diet and to still be experiencing such high seizure activity.

The emotional side of me wants to just take her off of everything and start from scratch. The logical side of me realizes the danger in this and will just keep plugging away hoping that these rough patches even out once we figure out the right medicine cocktail.

In other news, Sadie had her first visit with an otolaryngologist last week, or more commonly known as an ENT (ear, nose and throat) doctor. He is recommending a FEES (Fiberoptic Endoscopic Evaluation of Swallowing) study on Sadie. It is similar to a swallow study in that the study evaluates the effectiveness of the swallow, but will also tell us more about how Sadie is handing secretions and if there are any other issues with her swallowing.

While we can't help ourselves to try to figure out what the causes are...we keep plugging along, hoping that this rough patch will come to an end soon.

P.S. I just HAD to include the photo above in her blog. Sadie and Baxter, sibling love.

It Gets Better?

When Sadie was a newborn, she and I would take daily walks around our neighborhood. There was a local park we'd circle every day with a playground, pool, and softball fields. After Sadie's diagnosis, there were some days when making that loop was just too painful. Every child jumping off monkey bars, running by the pool, pitching a ball - was a vivid reminder of my own child's limitations.

As Sadie is our first baby, Adin and I have no previous experience in typical child development. We only have the children of friends and family with which to compare. Now that summer is into full swing, we find ourselves at friends' barbecues, pool parties, and family gatherings. As I mentioned in a previous blog post, it's quite difficult NOT to compare your own child to others.

Friends of ours, parents of another Aicardi girl, compare it to "the bends." A feeling you get when resurfacing from a deep sea dive. You are thrown into an alternate reality, then just as quickly, you're catapulted back into your own reality. Psychologists call it "chronic sorrow," a pervasive grief experienced by parents of children with special needs. There is no "It Gets Better" campaign for parents of children with special needs. You're simply handed a copy of a poem about Holland and sent on your way.

Don't get me wrong, I LOVE seeing our nieces, nephews and friends' children, and am fascinated with how quickly they grow and develop. But will there always be a twinge of pain when seeing a child do something that Sadie might never do? Does this mean our friends and family should feel guilty for having healthy children? No - absolutely not. We simply hope they cherish every healthy, typically-developing moment.

And while I hate hanging out in the land of "I feel sorry for myself", perhaps I've been thinking more about this lately because Sadie has been experiencing one of the most rocky seizure periods she's ever had. Her Dilantin levels have been all out of sorts - high one week, low the next. We also started a new medicine, Ospolot, a few weeks ago. Since then, she's been having periods of time where all she does is twitch. Sometimes it's mild - just the foot and hand twitching in a synchronized pattern, other times, her whole body twitches. This can go on for over an hour. We tend to err on the conservative side when it comes to administering Diastat (her emergency med), otherwise, we'd be giving it every day. We have given it three times in the past two weeks.

Just when we thought things were starting to calm down, the seizures spiked again for no apparent reason. We also noticed that Sadie's heart rate was extremely high and she was running a temperature. Come to find out, Sadie had a urinary tract infection (UTI). We started her on antibiotics, but the fevers continued to spike. Back to the pediatrician a few days later and they gave her an antibiotic shot - to which she had an allergic reaction. Hives all over her arms and legs.

And, while we thought we had gotten rid of the nasal cannula, she's needed to be on oxygen for the past week. According to her pulminologist, this can happen when kiddos get sick. Grrrrr...the girl simply can't catch a break.

So, I'm patiently waiting for things to get better. Patiently.

One Year Ago Today.

We walked in for our appointment with the neurologist to get the results of Sadie's MRI. That morning, I had a sinking feeling in the pit of my stomach...I just knew that it was not going to be good news.

The neurologist who diagnosed Sadie was an extremely kindhearted woman who began by having us explain to her what had been going on with Sadie. She then showed us photos of Sadie's MRI and pointed out the various cysts and abnormalities in her brain. It was during this appointment that she told us Sadie had Aicardi Syndrome. As Adin wrote notes in our notebook, he asked her how it was spelled.

She gave us literature about Aicardi Syndrome and began to explain what it would mean for Sadie. As Adin and I read the markers of the Syndrome: missing corpus callosum, seizures, infantile spasms, retinal scars and micropthalmia, we thought, "Yes, that's Sadie."

I remember the neurologist saying that Sadie would only develop mentally to 6 months to one year of age and would only have a 40% chance of making it into her early teens. I had to ask her to repeat herself...as my brain wasn't able to process this so quickly. She stepped out of the room to allow us time to digest this information. When she came back, we talked about seizure medications and follow up appointments with neurosurgeons and epileptologists.

Driving home was a blur. Adin and I didn't say one word to eachother. All that we had imagined for our daughter - playing softball, soccer, singing in the school choir, going to her first prom - had been taken from us in that short one-hour meeting.

Once arriving home, we began the hard task of making phone calls to our immediate family. How do you begin to deliver such bad news? I would always preface the conversation with "You're not going to know what to say when I tell you this....and that's OK."

The next few days were filled with profound sadness. I awoke the next morning hoping the day before had been a dream. Unfortunately it was not. Our families were (and continue to be) our saviors. It was comforting to be surrounded by people who shared in the sorrow.

Little did we know what the upcoming year would have in store for us - therapy sessions, numerous doctor's appointments, seizure medicines, hospital visits, oxygen tanks. But the past year has also given us a beautiful little girl who laughs when mommy coughs, smiles up at us from her crib, gets cranky when she's tired, puckers her lips when her Aunt goes in for a kiss, and looks with surprise when Baxter cries over a squirrel in the backyard.

Sadie has helped us become more tolerant, patient, kind and forgiving. The past twelve months have given us a broader perspective on life and reminded us to cherish every moment, because you never know when it could be taken away.

The only thing constant

Recently, I've felt like the only thing constant is change. We're aching for some regularity in our lives. Seizures are changing, medications are changing, feeding is changing.

Some changes are for the better....

Like Sadie is now taking all her nutrition by mouth. NO MORE NG TUBE! She is excited about the bottle, excited about solid foods...NOT so excited by her medicine syringes. So we've been experimenting with different methods of getting the medicines in her belly. What complicates the issue is the thickening of the liquid. As mentioned in the previous blog post, Sadie's swallow study showed that she aspirates thin liquids and all of her medicines are thin liquids (compounded liquid or crushed tablets mixed with water.)

Another positive change is Sadie's EEG. She had another video EEG study done last week to look at her brain waves. Sadie's neurologist reported that her recent EEG showed "more organized brain activity."

We are also happy that Sadie is slowly shedding her cords. She has been doing great off oxygen during the day. She even gets through her daily naps off O2. She is, however, still needing a trickle of oxygen at night. But we hope to get rid of the nasal cannula soon! I can't say when we'll be comfortable taking her off the pulse oximeter. There is a certain level of comfort in knowing her heart rate and oxygen levels at all times...but I know that in order for us to live a more "normal" life, we'll have to get rid of it soon.

Some changes are for the worse...

Sadie's seizures are still a little out of control. We've had to use diastat five times in the past six weeks. The most recent episode happened while her aunt and I were out shopping. Sadie began to have a seizure that lasted upwards of 20 minutes. We quickly headed to the car and administered the Diastat in the back of the minivan. As we headed home, her O2 levels dropped quickly and she became unresponsive. We gave her some emergency oxygen, but the O2 levels only rose into the mid-90s. So, we again found ourselves in the ER at Lutheran General. By the time we arrived, Sadie's O2 levels were back up, but she was a little woozy from the Diastat.

Luckily, this time we were released within a few hours. The docs found that Sadie's Dilantin level was high (33.6). Therapeutic range is from 10-20. If the level gets too high, it can cause increased seizures. So, we're working with the doc to reduce her levels. We also started a new medicine this week, Ospolot. Ospolot is not yet FDA approved in the US, but is used to treat seizures in Europe. Clinical trials look promising for Sadie's seizure types. One of Sadie's Aicardi friends, Josie, has used the medicine for years and it has worked well. We are hopeful that this new medicine will also work for Sadie.

We had Sadie out and about in the past few weeks. The photo above shows us at the finish line of the Epilepsy 5K Walk. Sadie also enjoyed her very first tea party for her friend Carmen's fourth birthday! The photo above shows Sadie in her fancy party dress with her Mimi. (Can you tell she likes her hands?)

The changes remind us not to get too comfortable. So, Sadie's journey continues as we change course...and change course again.

The Little Things. A Dash of Realism.

Much has happened in Sadie Land since our last blog post...swallow and sleep studies, a glorious period of seizure freedom, and a lot of new activity.

Sadie had her sleep study last week. The premise of a sleep study is to evaluate sleep patterns and determine if any sleep disorders (such as apnea) exist. As you can see by the photo above, multiple wires and sensors are placed on the body to evaluate breathing, leg movement, jaw movement, EEG patterns, etc. It's no wonder that Sadie slept horribly during this study. She was also recovering from a bad cold, so she was already a little congested. She slept about 4 hours that night.

When the nurse called to give the report, she informed me that no apnea was detected, but Sadie needed a little bit of oxygen (big surprise) and never got into REM sleep.

I asked, "Does apnea sometimes show up only in REM sleep?"
Nurse: Sometimes
Me: So do we have to repeat the sleep study once she's better and off oxygen?
Nurse: That probably isn't a bad idea.
Sigh...

I also asked for a copy of the report. It amazes me how much medical jargon is included in these reports. You'd think it was a contest between doctors. Example, the title of the sleep study report - "Nocturnal Polysomnograph Report." Interpreter, please.

Sadie's seizure activity has been all over the place in the past few weeks. She'll have a few good days, then a few really bad ones. Strangely enough, two weeks ago, the seizures stopped entirely. No medications were changed, nothing...we had 6 beautiful days of seizure freedom. Then the seizures came back 7 days later. We had to administer diastat (emergency med) after she had a long seizure that didn't go away after 40 minutes. It was a hugely disheartening.

Because the seizures now are looking a little different than even a few weeks ago, the doctor ordered another video EEG to determine if she is having different seizure types. This information helps the docs determine which medications will work best.

In positive news, Sadie is slowly coming off oxygen. She can go most days without. We do still have to put her nasal cannula in for naps and at night. Sadie has also delighted us the past few weeks by doing some pretty amazing things.

Reaching for and grabbing a toy - The past few weeks, Sadie has gotten pretty good at reaching and grabbing. I know she is interested in a toy when she lifts her right arm immediately when I bring the toy in front of her. She has started to grasp a few toys as well, even pinching some between her thumb and finger. This is a huge accomplishment. Previously, she wouldn't grasp at all and toys would simply fall out of her hand. She's still working on her grasp with the left hand, but I think she'll get there.

Because of this recent interest in toys, we've enrolled Sadie in Lekotek. Lekotek is an organization that helps families with special needs children learn how to play with toys. They have a variety of different toys that are more accessible to kids with special needs. Sadie has a hard time playing with toys due to her low muscle tone and lack of coordination. She can't press buttons on toys like most kids - many of the Lekotek toys are attached to switches which make them easier for Sadie to use.

Rolling over (almost) - Sadie can now get herself up on her left side. It's actually her preferred sleeping position. She'll wind up and flip her right arm and leg over her body - she has yet to fully roll onto her belly, but she has gotten her entire body over except for her head.

Eating - Sadie actually cooperated and we got through swallow study last week. The good news is, she was awake and swallowed her food. The bad news is she is aspirating some of it. The x-ray showed that some of her formula was getting into her lungs. The solution for the time being is to thicken her liquids. We are using a thickener called Simply Thick, which makes the formula the consistency of a thick nectar. The thicker liquid is more difficult to aspirate. We have an appointment to visit a feeding clinic at Easter Seals this week, and we'll work closely with her feeding therapist to tweak her feeds in the coming weeks.

We started to feed her orally the evening after the swallow study. She was a champ with the solid foods and took them great. Tears of joy filled my eyes as she began to suck on her bottle again. For parents of "normal" children, these proud tears are reserved for graduations, little league games, piano recitals, first proms. As parents of a special needs child, it's these small things that keep us going and give us hope.

There many people who say "you'll never know what she'll be able to do." And, while we appreciate the optimism, we have to temper it with a dash of realism, otherwise, we'd be constantly disappointed.

For Sadie, it's the little things that make us so happy - (almost) rolling over, giggling, sucking her bottle, reaching for a toy, grasping an object. We hope for more of these small achievements in the coming weeks.

Sadie Time

We always joke that Sadie works on her own schedule - "Sadie Time." I have to laugh when people ask me questions like "When does she typically nap?" "What's her schedule?" The girl does what she wants, when she wants. We do our best to have her awake and alert during the day, and keep her sleeping at night - but most of the time, even this proves to be a challenge.

Case in point, we've now had to reschedule her swallow study twice. The first time around, she came down with a cold, so we cancelled and rescheduled for a week later. The second attempt proved beyond a doubt that Sadie is in charge. Despite sleeping relatively well the night before and getting in a good morning nap, she simply refused to wake up for the 1 pm swallow study. We tried taking off her shirt, putting a wet washcloth on her face, turning the lights up high, playing music, etc. The more we tried, the more she slept.

So frustrating when there are three technicians, a speech therapist and doctor in the room all asking why she's not waking up? Isn't she hungry? Did she not get a good nap? I wanted to scream at them and tell them that she does things on her schedule - and four seizure medications doesn't help either. Arrrghhh...

We attempt the swallow study again on Tuesday. I'm fearful because she hasn't taken anything by mouth for the past month, that she's lost some of her swallowing ability. I guess we'll know for sure on Tuesday (if Sadie cooperates.)

Sadie has been having a hard time keeping her oxygen levels up on her own. This week will mark one month on oxygen and the NG feeding tube. We had been slowly weaning her off the O2 when she came down with a slight cold and we had to boost her up again. After speaking with her pulminologist last week, she suspects that Sadie's low O2 levels may be the result of her having a difficult time coughing stuff up. Apparently this is a problem for many kids with low muscle tone. I have an appointment with a respiratory therapist next week to learn how to do chest PT, which will help with this. My nursing repertoire expands.

The pulminologist also suspects that Sadie may have sleep apnea. So, they will conduct a sleep study in the next few weeks where they will observe her overnight. Perhaps this will finally answer our question about her horrible sleep patterns.

If that wasn't enough, this past month her seizure activity has been up and down. She'll go for a few days having very low seizure activity (2-3 is a good day for Sadie.) Then, out of nowhere, she'll have a day where she'll be seizing every 3 minutes. We've had to give diastat (her emergency medication) twice in the past month. The seizures have been looking a little different lately as well. Instead of her typical infantile spasm "crunches," she's been having seizures that look more like your standard seizure (some shaking/trembling, eyes rolling). These look a little more frightening than her old seizures.

I was a little (OK, a lot) disappointed that Sadie had all of her cords attached for her first birthday party. But as you can see in the photo above, she looked adorable and had a wonderful time with friends and family.

We forge ahead, hopeful that we can get her off of oxygen and the feeding tube very very soon. Which, Sadie will do when SHE is good and ready.

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